I got married in 2000 and my husband’s biggest desire was to start a family of his own immediately after we got married. He was the only child born from his father and mother who separated when he was young. He later had step-siblings but never got to spend most of his life with them…
Bakithi, mina ngangike ngesabe njalo nginyukubale ngisizwa uMzalwane ekhuluma ngoMoya ONgcwele engathi yinto. Mayeee! UMoya ONgcwele ngumuntu booo! UMoya ONgcwele nguNkulunkulu! Ngomunye wengxenye kaNkulunkulu: oMunye bathathu; uNkulunkulu uBaba, uNkulunkulu iNdodana enguJesu, loNkulunkulu uMoya ONgcwele. Wayekhona ekuqaleni, ukhona lamhla, uzakubakhona kuze kube nininini! Sivamile njalo ukuthi sithi unguMoya kaNkulunkulu, uMoya kaBaba. Uyabizwa njalo ngokuthi nguMoya weqiniso.…
Kanenginengi, nxa uloba inoveli, uzwa izingcitshio ekulobeni zigcizelela lokhu ukuthi, Tshengisa ungalandisi. Sekungathi ukulandisa yindlela engahlabusiyo, indinabadli, elalisayo. Abalobi abenza ugwalo ungalubeki phansi ngabatshengisa okwenzakalayo ngokugabaza ngolimi, besebenzisa amabala adala imifanekiso engqondweni, aphakamise imizwa, ngoba elezidutshulo zokwenza. Nanzi izibonelo: 1.Tshengisa: Wathi hluthu isikhwama, nyawo ngibeletha, uMama wasala esiqhinqa isililo ethwele imikhono ekhanda. Landisa: Wahluthuna isikhwama wabaleka uMama wasala ekhala.2.Tshengisa: Wagigitheka wathi ga ngesiphundu kwaze kwabonakala lesilakalaka silakazela. Landisa: Wahleka waze walala phansi.3.Tshengisa: Kathintwa lo, kuphazima umbane wezulu utshaye utshabalalise. Landisa: Kaqalwa…
Mthwakaz’ omuhle, nansi isigcawu sokugiya ngobuciko bakho. Vukubula ugqozi obelulele lununkule, lutshakale, lutshitshimbe yeka! Asiphutshe isitshikitsha sezwi lakho, zitshaywe izikeyi zokubabaza, idutshulwe ingquzu yokugabaza ngolimi, sibukele sincinde. Giya ngemibono, lemizwa lemicabango yakho. Ingabe uyamemeza, kumbe uyaklabalala, kumbe uyalila, mhlawumbe uyabihla, caca uzwakale. Kunga uyamomotheka, kumbe uqhakala uhleko, kumbe uyaqumbaqumba, mhlawumbe uyalaya, loba uyakhalima, loba ukhonona…
Ngivumeleni ngivule inkundla ngokwethula amasu amqoka akuqala okumele sizidle ngawo lapho sijulisa umcabango wethu simisa ukuthi sizinikele ukuthi silobe inkondlo. 1.Okokuqala njalo okumqoka yikuthi njengembongi, kumele uzibuze imibuzo ebalisa ethi: a) Ngibhalela bani? b) Ngijongeni? c) Kuyini okungivuse usinga logqozi lokuloba? d) Zibuze njalo ukuthi zizakuthini ingcitshi ezizahluza njalo zicubungule inkondlo zakho. 2.Kumele wazi njalo okukhangelelwe zingcitshi ezizacubungula inkondlo zakho,ukuze zibe ngezifaneleyo. Ngizagxila kabanzi kudaba lokuthi kuyini okukhangelelwe ngabacubunguli lapho becubungula inkondlo. Ngisenza lokhu, kumqoka ukuthi ngiqinise udaba lokuthi njengembongi, kumele ulimuke ukuthi: a) Awubhaleli ukulibazisa lokukholisisa nje kuphela, kodwa. b) Kunengi okwetheswa njengomthwalo emahlombe akho ngumphakathi owubhalelayo. Uyafana xathu lembongi yezolo ebithatha ingxenye enkulusibili, ikakhulu sikhangelane lokubusa lokuhlalisana, ukulibazisa lokuthokozisa kanye lokufundisa indlela yokusebenzisa ulimi…
